We all have unique relationships with our pets. The common denominator is usually mutual affection and reliance for support.
We house, feed, and care for our pets and they, in turn, provide company and friendship. In between, there are walks, car rides, treats, and quiet moments on the couch.
The loss of a pet to accident, injury, illness, or age can be devastating. It can leave us in grief and a deep sense of loss. There are some ways to help you through this grief. Here are some tips:
Honor the Relationship with Cremation
Your pet may have devoted its life to you. You also likely have invested time and resources into them through the years. It makes sense then to take the time and resources to provide a respectful cremation.
With cremation, your pet’s remains are incinerated so the resulting ashes can be kept or disposed of in a wide array of options.
Some of these options include:
Spread the Ashes
You may wish to spread the ashes of your pet in a favorite park, along a favorite walking trail or forest.
Burial
Pet cremains can be buried in an appropriate place with a marker. Some may decide on a more organic burial, placing the ashes in the earth while planting a tree or using an organic, biodegradable container.
Use Ashes to Create a Keepsake
Today, it is possible to use a small amount of your pet’s remains to create lasting keepsakes to allow you to remember and honor your furry friend. Options include jewelry, a plaque, a paperweight, a desk clock, and more.
Create a Statue or Marker
Ashes can be used to create a concrete image or marker in salute to your pet. A variety of companies provide these unique services.
Keep Ashes in an Urn
Some owners decide to simply keep the cremains of their pet in an urn for safekeeping or display. Pet urns can range from the simple to the elaborate. They can even be customized with engravings or photos.
Conduct a Ceremony
Don’t be afraid to have a memorial ceremony for your pet, even if it just includes close family members. You could also invite other pet owners who understand the relationship between pets and their owners. A memorial service could be conducted at a park or even at home.
Reach Out to Loved Ones
If you find yourself struggling with the loss of a pet, reach out to others who may be experiencing similar feelings. Oftentimes, your cremation provider can help connect you with local resources. Discussing your loss can help you get through your grief. It can also help to know you are not going through this alone.
Contact Our Caring Team
Grieving for a pet is neither silly nor unnatural. It is normal and common. Getting through the grief is easier when you honor your pet with cremation and a respectful memorial.
Should you have questions or need guidance, please feel free to reach out to us. We would be honored to be of service.
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