As we age, we begin to transition from “what do we want to do”, to “what do we want to have” and then to “what do we want to leave behind”. There is even a more profound question to be asked. That is the question of how we want to be remembered.
Certainly, most of how we will be remembered will be in how we lived our lives and the choices we made along the way. It will be in the eyes and souls of those who loved and cared for us. But even for those who may have a regret or two, there is a final opportunity to have a voice in how they want to be remembered. That is in pre-planning their funeral.
Not Your Grandfather’s Funeral Service
Many of us have dim, dark memories of a grandparent’s funeral. It was likely held in an artificially lit room with the overwhelming odor of sweet flowers and hushed conversations. Many funeral services are still held that very same way. But there is a change that is occurring. It is a shift from sadness to celebration. It is a change from over-spending to practicality. It represents a way that baby boomers want to be recognized after their deaths. Untraditional, personalized, and yes, even joyous.
The Modern Funeral Service
While years ago, hiding a small, tiny memento in the casket to be buried with a loved one may have been considered out of the norm, today it is almost expected. Here, in Cincinnati, we have had funerals themed around the Reds, the Bengals and the Kentucky Wildcats. We have had services that extolled the joys and pleasures of the departed, many of those filled with laughter and genuine appreciation. We have conducted final services based on one’s hobbies and even some that extended the departed sense of humor to new levels. The modern funeral service today can be what you want it to be, if you pre-plan for it. We can help you accomplish that at Fares J. Radel.
The Value of Pre-Planning
Let’s be honest. People say all kinds of things all the time. We all have heard someone say “I want my funeral to be a party” or “I don’t want people crying when I’m gone.” When they pass, however, this sentiment can be lost in grief. That is why pre-planning is so important.
When you pre-plan with Fares J. Radel, whether you pre-pay or not, your wishes will be documented. Away from the pressures of family, you can tell us what you want your final services to be like and how you want people to feel. We can talk about your favorite songs, teams, memories and what motivated you through life. We can help you be remembered the way you want to be remembered. There may be no greater gift for those you leave behind.
We understand pre-planning may be uncomfortable. Just know it doesn’t take a large balance in a checkbook. We can help you pre-plan without pre-paying. Contact us at Fares J. Radel Funeral Homes and Crematory today.
